Oh To Love, How Rare That Truly Is

By Evan Sanders


Oh to love, how rare that really is. The things we love in this world last only so long. Yes, it may only be 5 minutes, 5 years, or a complete lifetime, but at the end we eventually part. How truly lucky we are to have something so wonderful at one point that makes the ending of the journey so hard. But for those who love unconditionally...for people who love with their full heart and understand that we are all sentenced to an end, we stay present with the people we really love. We make that moment last as long as we will because who really knows when those moments will be no more. Our love is the thing that miracles are made from. Our love is the thing that may really and accurately change the world . We see people all the time fall in love with something they are doing, and the world changes around them. We see people who fall head over heels in love with a person, and their energy, the two of them together as a unit creates something that other people see and feel.

Love rises above all else.

Love is a type of energy that really cannot be explained.

Words are no match for it. Even when the most beautiful of words are used in the most elegant way, only a scratch is made on actually describing what love is. This explains why our hearts literally break when love crashes and burns. Recovery unfortunately appears as distant cousin. We enter into a true state of loss honestly because the person we were with were really was our other set of eyes, hands and legs.

Our buddies, our work, our close relationships, all can be deeply adored. Not juvenile "love" but I am really talking about the kind of truly deep and exposed love, where you haven't any fear in your mind about telling that person the worst about yourself, the things you have kept secret, because you know that love transcends all. You give somebody the tools to totally destroy you down to your core, and you trust them with everything within you not to.

Love nevertheless can be a fugitive type of thing.

And that is how it is designed to be. As people, we try to hang onto the good things as long as we possibly can, but sometimes the good just runs out and the balance of life takes a dip from what we had. We are meant to be brought down, so we can in truth rise again. I have always thought the person I truly fell completely in love with, my soulmate, wouldn't simply just be the one who would be on the up and up with me, but the one who would support me and even help me walk through those dips in life.

The love that I have felt in past years has been glorious, life changing, incredible, and yet at all the same time passing. Things morph, things change, and as the years have gone by, I've found more and more paths to appreciate what I had instead of what I lost. I think that has been a major turning point for me. My soul opens like a blooming flower every time I give myself the real chance to experience life. The good and the bad. The amazing strength of an ancient redwood is built into my core and flowers of expertise, passion, and knowledge bloom all though my soul.

We are designed to experience the events we do on the paths we choose.

Hold onto what you can while you have it and terribly love those around you. Cold and hard hearts are for the weak. That is fear talking. That's fear trying to offer protection to the one thing you know that could actually make you vulnerable. Overt and plain-speaking strength is not strength at all. It's weakness making an attempt to convince an audience it is something else.

Honest vulnerability and a delicate heart is true strength. The path permits you to confront even your greatest fears with eagerness and animation.

Love intensely.

Love fervently.

Love vulnerably.

Love with no fear.




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