Are You Trying Too Hard To Get Your Girlfriend Back

By Steve Zones


Are you going crazy trying to figure out what you can do to get back together with your girlfriend or wife? Are you worried that she will forget about you or that some other guy is going to steal her away from you? This desperate desire might actually be working against you.

It can be hard to overcome your thoughts with regard to your ex lover. She's the only person that you might want to spend time with. You adore her and this separation is irritating to you. Most guys are used to fixing things.

Consider that for a minute. In relation to issues of the heart, you probably can't make a girl love you. It's as if they have a invisible perception that tells them if somebody is wanting to control them. They can almost smell desperation and it's a huge turn off for most women.

Just think about that for a moment. When it comes to matters of the heart, you really can't make a woman love you. It's as if they have a hidden sense that tells them when someone is trying to manipulate them.

Many pickup artists will tell you that in order to attract a woman you need to be willing to walk away. Even if your heart is involved and you are crazy about a girl, you need to be willing to walk away in order to attract her and earn her respect. Women tend to value men who are not needy or willing to do anything for them. Being a little bit reserved or mysterious adds to the attraction. Being unavailable makes you more desirable. Remember, sometimes being willing to simply walk away is all that it takes to make her chase after you. Keep all this in view the very next time you see your ex lover or speak to her.




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